By definition, catastrophic events, job loss, divorce, and death of a loved one are extremely stressful, but these situations are infrequent. What about those day-to-day stressors you face all the time? Employee Benefit Research Institute (EBRI) reports a third of American workers who were surveyed are concerned about mental health.
The Centers for Disease Control National Institute on Occupational Safety and Health states the number one cause of chronic stress is the workplace. Accordingly, 120,000 people die from work-related stress yearly. Not only are we busier, but we are working longer hours.
All the hard work adds up to stress and too much stress results in illness. It is important to develop some quick ways to defuse stress. It’s best to develop some of the skills before stressful situations occur.
Too much stress can impact your health. Defuse stress before it builds. Photo credit: Adobe Stock
The Big Squeeze – There is a direct link between problems at work and stress-related illness, especially when it comes to unwelcome change. This form of work stress is sometimes referred to as the FUD factor: Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt. It is usually linked to the employees’ businesses or corporations that are undergoing change. Experts say you should first separate the things you can change from the things you cannot.
With that in mind, here are some suggestions on how to deal with stressful situations with minimal anxiety.
Co-Workers Stress – Situations involving others are always potentially stressful. Consider your options. Can you move your workstation? Can you reduce office interactions with people who upset you? Sometimes you need to turn a negative into a positive. Would more open communication alleviate some problems?
The Weighting Game – Gaining weight is often both a stressor and a symptom of stress. It is easy to appease your stress with overeating. Instead of reaching for food, reach for a book or cultivate a hobby. Keep low-cal snacks like carrot sticks or air-popped popcorn handy.
Fitness Guilt – First, give up the all-or-nothing attitude you may have cultivated. You would like to be healthier. You don’t need to train for the Olympics. Don’t look at exercising as another task you need to get done; do something you enjoy. Instead of hitting the gym, try dancing, biking, or swimming.
Sleepless but Superwoman – Called the “silent epidemic of modern time,” lack of sleep is often the result of the Superwoman syndrome, in which a person not only thinks she can do everything but feels responsible for everything. Stress and sleeplessness feed on one another. A number of studies have shown that stress reduces the time spent in deep sleep, which increase one’s stress level. One result of stressful sleeplessness is a reduction in the effectiveness of the immune system.
Unforeseen Events – Flat tire? Plumbing problems? Sick child? First, realize this isn’t going to last forever. Be prepared. Work out a plan “B” for anything that worries you. You now have a plan of action if you need one.
Latchkey Anxiety – Accept the reality that you can’t be everywhere. Next, try to establish some kind of safety net that could relieve your anxiety.
Recognize your stressors and take action to control your stress.
“Stressed is just desserts spelled backwards.” When I was younger, I took this saying to heart. If I was stressed, I reached for the sweets. That instant rush of sugar to my brain provided a feeling of happiness and contentment. But it was only temporary. Once the sugar high wore off, I went back to feeling overwhelmed with stress, which just made me reach for more sweets.
It took me much too long to realize this was an endless and unhealthy cycle. Stress eating, especially stress-eating junk food, was such an ingrained habit for me, I did not even think about it having negative consequences such as weight gain and high blood sugar, both of which can be exacerbated by stress itself.
More recently, I have taken an interest in healthier coping strategies. Stress is an inevitable and integral part of our lives. We cannot avoid it. But we can seek ways to deal with it that do not add even more stress (or calories) to our body. One of the most helpful strategies I have adopted to cope with stress is to strive to live more mindfully.
Spending time in nature has been shown to decrease feelings of stress, lower blood pressure, and increase feelings of calm. (Photo source: UF/IFAS File Photo)
Mindfulness has become a bit of a buzzword over the last few years, but do not let that trick you into thinking it is just a fad. Mindfulness and everything it entails has been around for decades (even longer!). Practices such as mindful breathing, tai chi, and meditation are all part of mindfulness, which is simply an umbrella term used to describe strategies for dealing with difficult emotions, managing stress, and staying present in everyday life.
One of the things I have found most valuable in my foray into mindfulness is the ability to better recognize the signs of stress in my body. Early recognition of stress signals allows me to put one of my new mindfulness skills into practice to combat their effects. This may include simply pausing for a few moments and consciously breathing or taking a short walk in the sunshine while allowing the sounds around me, and not my stressful thoughts, to become the focus of my attention.
Another good practice for stress reduction in general is to immerse yourself in nature whenever possible. Whether that is hiking one of the many local nature trails, kayaking in the springs, or relaxing at the beach while listening to the waves, spending time in nature has been shown to alleviate stress. Even watching a brief nature video online has been shown to lower blood pressure and elicit feelings of calm.
April is Stress Awareness Month. I challenge everyone to take some time this month to really think about what stress looks like for you and how it shows up in your mind and body. How do you usually cope with it? If the answer involves over-indulgence in a substance such as food or alcohol, I urge you to try a new, healthier way to cope. Go for a walk. Focus on your breath. Even try meditation with the help of a mindfulness mobile app. It may feel weird at first, but if you keep at it, it will soon become a new healthy habit that you will reach for instead of that bag of chips.
Simplify your life. What an easy thing to say! Unfortunately, sometimes putting those words into action can be anything but easy. For so many of us, things just seem to accumulate until clutter becomes a way of life. In fact, most Americans only use 20% of what we own. The other 80% consists of things we don’t use, think we ought to use or might use someday. This kind of clutter can take over a home, turning a peaceful retreat into a stressful out-of-control environment.
It’s a fact. Disorganization causes 80% of the clutter in most homes. Becoming more organized and ditching the clutter can do wonders for lowering stress and improving physical, mental and emotional health. Organization puts you in control of your environment, opens up more time for yourself and even saves you money by eliminating those unnecessary last-minute purchases.
Professional Organizer Peter Walsh offers the following “FAST” tips for getting rid of clutter:
F: Fix a time. Eliminating clutter isn’t something you need to do all by yourself. Make it a family affair and get even more done. Pick a weekend day or a couple of hours every day when everyone is home and get a jump start on the process. A: Anything not used in 12 months. If you haven’t used something in the last year, you probably don’t need it. There are lots of strategies for narrowing down what can be thrown away versus what needs to be kept. One idea with clothes is to point all hangers in one direction. As you wear an item, turn the hanger in the opposite direction. By the end of the season, you’ll be able to tell exactly which clothes you need to bid a fond farewell. S: Someone else’s stuff. This one is easy. Your house shouldn’t contain anything that doesn’t belong to you. If it doesn’t belong to you, don’t keep it in your house. T: Trash. Make the trash can your hungry friend – and feed it. Be proud of how much you purge and keep your goal in sight: Only save the amount of stuff that makes sense for your space.
When it comes to “clutter busting”, put strategy into action and you’ll soar. Take advantage of online search engines to find even more tips and tricks. Before you know it, you’ll be amazed at what you’ve accomplished.
References:
Declutter Your Life, UF/IFAS Extension, Seminole County, Julie England. 2016
Getting Organized, West Virginia University Extension Service Families and Health Programs, Stephanie Nestor and Zona Hutson. 2010
Get Organized Now Website http://www.getorganizednow.com/
Peter Walsh http://www.oprah.com/home/Clutter-Control
